Daylight Savings Fog (Rant)

Black woman Bitmoji surrounded by fog feeling down...

Even with the sun shining, I’m still surrounded by a funk and a fog this week. I guess Daylight Savings has hit me really hard. I haven’t been able to shake this mood. Lately I’ve been tired, annoyed, fed up, and… tired. I know it’s stress at work (Do I have to be asked to do everything?) and stress of doing everything on my own (Even taking out the trash has pissed me off!). But, this Black Woman has reached the point where I have no more nice words to give! And I don’t think Sunday mass or my therapist will help with adding those words back into my vocabulary. I’m just fed up with everything and everybody!

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Women Supporting Women: Karen & Dinah (EastEnders)

Karen and Dina laughing at Mitch’s smooth game and foolishness. 😂😂 Two mothers… Awesome scene! #EastEnders — BovaryCee ♋️🌻🙋🏾 (@BovarysComplnt) March 8, 2019 International Women’s Day (IWD) is about recognizing and supporting women around the world. It’s about sharing and supporting the contributions women have made to our history, culture, …

Letting Go of My Locks

Blue bag with cut dreadlocks

Today was like most Sundays except… I had to cut my dreadlocks for the fifth plus time. (I’ve had them so often, I’ve lost count.) I had to let them go. My hair wasn’t responding well to my medication.

See, besides my depression medication, I’m also taking five more medications for my Atrial Fibrillation (AFib). Add to that my grown woman age of 50 and… My hair needed a rest. As I cut each lock, I could hear a soft voice from my hair saying, “Thank you…”


Relaxation Is…

Relaxation is coming home after work and having your glass(es) of Prosecco… IN PEACE!

Some of you need to realize there’s a “Wine O’Clock Time” after work. That means your mess isn’t important for the two hours I need to enjoy my Prosecco. Don’t interrupt my peace!

Cheers to our sacred time everyone!!! #WineOClockTime